The questions we ask ourselves as we walk through life are very important. When you ask yourself, “What do I need now?”, you are bringing focus to your own very important self care. When you ask yourself, “ What is true and important for me in this situation?”, you are bringing yourself consciously into the center of your life. As you move forward in your life, make sure that the first questions you ask in a situation are about your life and your needs. This is not selfish, this is centering.