Sometimes we treat blame like a bouncing ball. We want to get it into someone else’s court and when we do, we feel relieved. Unfortunately the problem from which the blame stemmed remains unsolved. When we choose to work together to solve a problem, blame no longer has relevance. We can learn from any mistakes that might have been made and use that knowledge to create a better solution. The movement from blaming to creating is a powerful and positive one. The negativity of blaming is not an energy in which good things are created. Learning and moving forward to create is both positive and powerful.