In this ever changing world we must constantly evaluate where we invest our energy. If you have ever tried and tried to get a person or a situation to change and failed, that is an indicator of a bad energy investment. Sometimes it is difficult to give up the trying because we have invested so much energy in the cause, but the power actually resides in the choice to stop the flow of your energy to places and people where change is not going to happen. When you make this choice, you are reclaiming your energy and directing it to your own life and your own choices. This is truly being responsible. You are here to create and how you use your energy is the way you create.