It is the nature of the self to want to grow and one sign of that growth is the desire to know truth for yourself. When you are considering a situation, make a point to first ask yourself, What is true for me in this situation and what is my highest good? This question will help you ground in your truth and will keep you in your center. It is a great question to ask if you are dealing with people pleasing habits because it makes you consider yourself and your good first. This is one of the growth questions and it will serve you well if you ask it from a position of peace and love.