Fear based questions in and out of your head, inevitably lead you to the past or the future. You have no power in either of these locations. Your only power is in the present. It is easy to confuse looking for the lessons of the past with judging yourself for what you did not know or what you did not do. This paralyzes you in the present, which is the only place from which you can create. Let us say that you were driving above the speed limit and you were stopped and given a ticket. If you focus on the speeding or on the ticket, you might not want to drive again. That would be a mistake. You can drive more carefully because you learned the lesson, but you must continue to drive. The creation of your life is in your hands and in the present. Use the creative power wisely, lovingly and bravely.